Quote from @Ke Nan Wang:
Seems like you've already made up your mind and no one is gonna change your mind. Anytime someone brings up a reason you will counter it with your own logic and actually push yourself further and further away from where it seems like the place you want to go. Just accept the fact that real estate could not be for you and your wife, and that's okay.
Everyone has their our ways of building wealth. Not saying one method is the best one for everyone. Usually the one asset you know the best, is the best asset for you. I have a plumber who made $700k net last year between him and his father, they put all that money either in a high yield savings account or put it back to their business. Compare my plumber to another "hot shot" developer I know who ended up over extending himself and filed bankruptcy, maybe the plumbers are doing better than that fast growing developer...
Personally I invest in stocks, mutual funds, moneys in high yield savings account, dabbled in digital currency and but primarily real estate. I know real estate the best and I think it's the best way to build wealth so real estate is my top choice. It's not passive but I enjoy working in it because it's something I'm good at. Find the investment asset you are good at and just invest in that one. If you aren't willing to learn that investment asset, then you can either:
1. find someone you trust to help you invest into that asset
2. put money in low/no risk investment assets and just accept the low return
3. blindly go into an investment asset and basically gamble. You can win or you can lose. The pitfall you want to avoid in this scenario is that, even if you have some success, ask yourself if the success was due to luck or your skill. This is what I did with my stocks portfolio. In the beginning I was buying the companies I believed in, everyone knows buy low sell high but nobody really know where is the low and high. Sometimes you get lucky and you thought you were genius at picking the right stocks and then later you get unlucky and lose it all. At the end of the day, in the long run, without studying the stock market and the knowledge like Warren Buffet, most people ended up not beating the market and might as well just put the money in SP500 index funds. If you don't know real estate, this would be the same for you if you just want to invest, not wanting to do the work nor learn nor wanting to do option 1.
excellent post Ke Nan, couldn't agree more, and Chris, if y'all are working full time, then may be most efficient to maximize your W2 earnings as you are, then plough the savings into Real Estate syndications to get many of the same tax benefits you would get from direct real estate ownership but without all the time investment of dealing with tenants/toilets/and termites etc. This has been my approach.
The syndications can give you tax-deferred monthly/quarterly distributions due to the GP doing a cost segregation analysis and applying the massive yearly depreciation (on building/parking lot/roof/HVAC etc) against the yearly income. In most of the 35 or so deals i've been in, i've had little to no taxable distributions until year 7-8 on our typical 10-year hold period, so a 10% cash on cash return is an effective 13.33% for example when you compare to other taxable returns if at 25% bracket,
The syndication next can roll the sale proceeds into another larger investment, like-kind, 1031 exchange and not have to pay any long-term capital gains taxes, about 20-23.8% nor any depreciation recapture tax about 25%. Thus, the investment grows like it's sitting in a roth 401k/IRA
Then when you die, your heir gets a step-up in basis, thus eliminating all the prior capital gains over decades, but only up to 13.6 mil this year :(
Debt Funds (like mortgage note investing) can also be very lucrative but I don't know/understand the tax savings/issues in that class yet, still learning :)
Equity REIT investing can give you great siloed real estate exposure in 11 major asset class sub-types, but don't offer the
direct tax benefits as direct RE ownership does above, as the REIT gets those benefits when it transacts and as a corporation passes those benefits secondarily/indirectly onwards to us investors as high dividends and gradual stock price appreciation. Equity REITs (not mortgage REITS) are truly great though and have returned 1.5-2.0% more than SP500 over last 20/25/50 years in multiple retrospective studies, and are a great value purchase right now due to being beaten down by fast FED rate rise last 2 yrs, however to get best tax benefits, buy them only within a tax advantaged account like 401k/IRA etc as the big dividends are taxed very high at earned income rates.
Good luck, wishing you and wife all the best on your investing journey :)
ps don't ever keep cash at a bank, park in your brokerage account and buy USFR, a wisdom tree ETF, pays 5.39% interest, holds only 8 week US treasury floating rate notes, so you don't need to worry about
FDIC or SPIC insurance as only way US govt doesn't pay is if we get nuked, then you won't much care about cash yields, just non-radioactive water.