Thank you all for your thoughts! This really helps a lot to feel confident I'm on the right track, so I really appreciate it.
1. I believe each of the duplexes would be valued at least at $110K if not closer to $130K. I know good comps for multi-units can be a bit tricker and am waiting to hear back from a RE agent I've previously worked with for her thoughts. The rowhome that doesn't cash flow appraised for $141K almost 2 years ago, so I imagine due to the hot market, it'll be worth at least that much still. All of these properties are in Baltimore County Maryland and it has indeed been a pretty hot market.
2. I know that I want to stay in the rental business. I am the one doing most of the work (which looking back, I'm a bit annoyed with myself that we own the LLC 50/50 when he barely did a thing).
In addition to any possible splitting of proceeds, I would get $25K on top because in the past, I put $25K of my own money into the LLC. I definitely agree on leaning towards a private sale if possible and I like the 5% discount idea too.
***If I end up buying him out, how do I handle the $25K that I put into the LLC several years ago? It is not currently liquid cash, but was put towards one of the duplexes. (Why does it feel easier to answer these kinds of questions when it's someone else instead of yourself? :-) )
3. The rowhome is probably the nicest property/most desirable; it has no problems getting rented from what I've seen (just one tenant so far since I've bought/rehabed it about 2 years ago). The duplexes are in a somewhat rough-around-the-edges area, but they've always been easy to rent out, and several tenants have stayed for years therefore lowering my vacancy rate. I have noticed some growth of new businesses and such close by too.
Due to the cash-flow as well as the equity, I think I'm starting to lean towards keeping one--if not both--duplexes if my ex is interested in being bought out. If he is, I would go and talk to my bank about the refi details and if I could refi them into my name (and out of the LLC). LLCs cost $300/year in Maryland. It would be restructured into a sole member LLC if my ex got out. So I'm not really sure if there's much of a point in keeping the LLC if I'm able to refi out into my own name (and get better rates too).
4. My goals with RE are to be able to live off of it in addition to my 401K in retirement. If I can be aggressive enough, I would love to be able to have enough cash flow asap so that I can just work part-time and/or take a lower paying FT job than I currently have. I would need to buy more deals to make this happen. I have no debt and a healthy savings rate currently.
@Dawn Brenengen, I'm sorry to hear that you're also going through a seperation. I hope that the split is as easy as possible and amicable. I'm thankful that mine is amicable so far. Without putting too much detail in a public post, I should have done this in December 2017, but tried for about 3 years to work through our biggest issue before deciding that we sadly should just part ways. It seems that it not being nasty and bitter at times makes it even more difficult because I start to wonder if I made the right decision. But my feelings of lightness and relief outweigh my feelings of doubt.