I met with a the REI for lunch today. We had a good 2 hour discussion. I left a good impression on me. He gave me copies of his standard private lending agreement, mortgage contract, and details on 2 of the deals he has done . He currently has 3 deals in the works, 2 flips, and one he plans to hold as a rental. He gave me the names of his CPA and 2 real estate attorneys he uses and the name of another person he has mentored. He had another business venture (streaming High school sports on the internet) with 2 partners several years ago where one of the partners (the software writer) did not hold up his end of the bargain and they had to file for bankruptcy. They had a buyer of the business, but the buyer wanted to cut out the software guy from the business and keep the other two on as consultants. The software guy refused the deal, so everyone lost out.
He told me that in the state of Kansas, you cannot lend private money or solicit for private money to strangers. There must be an on-going relationship between the two people before any deals can be struck. He said that, at a minimum, you have to have met together 3 times a month to establish a relationship before any specific money lending discussions can even take place.
He has a partner who is a cardiologist that provides some capitol and advice. But the guy I talked with does the rest of the work for the mot part. He is not a full time REI yet. His goal is to be full time by next spring. His other job is selling medical equipment. He recently changed jobs to a different company that pays less, but also requires less time, leaving him more time for the real estate business. He has been doing entrepreneurial projects since he was a kid, first lawn mowing, then started raising hogs when he was 14.