So for anyone that reads this in the future - I've done some more research and what I've found is that my 401k strategy, while it does have some advantages, is not something that I think it is going to work for my family at our income level.
If we had a higher effective tax rate (maybe like 20% or so), I think that this strategy could work, because you are reducing your taxes dollars so significantly. However, for us, while this strategy would increase our net worth by decreasing our tax dollar paid, it reduces our investing fund in such a way that could be detrimental to our investing strategy.
Additional Drawbacks include:
Less Flexibility - By putting our money into our retirement accounts, aside from the loan that we could take, that money was pretty much locked up
Higher Risk - In this scenario we were relying on our rental income to pay our bills. If one of our renters stop paying or we have some sort of emergency, we are unable to respond to those problems as quickly.
I would be happy to provide more specific dollar amounts and share the excel tool I've built to analyze this data if anyone is interested. Just send me a private message.