Thanks Everyone! @Emily B. that's what I was thinking (to do both)! and congrats on your deal, I know all will work out. I'm having faith that whatever I decide, it will work out as well but I must be smart about this, can't throw it all in the air and see what sticks in this situation.
@Jeff Bridges thank you so much for your thorough response...allow me to verify some things 1) you are right the full $60K can not be used to liquidate, for example one card is $12,500..I can only get $9,000 cash advance with an 1% fee. they all have a 1-3% fee for the first 60 days upon activating the account (introductory deal). So with that being said, the full amount that I can actually liquidate is $47K.
2) 5 cards are 12 months 0% APR the other 3 cards have 24 months 0% APR.
I've been so scared to liquidate as I know that's when the time begins to pay back, however, I have this 0% APR from the time I activated so the clock is ticking either way.
3) Jeff you make a great point about the cash out refi chances. Once I pull out all that money from the cards, my good credit score will tank so if the lender is determining their approval upon my credit score, I may be in trouble as that was the only way I could think of to pay these cards back hmmm.
uggh decisions decisions.