Oh wow! @Jeff Stewart thank you, thank you, thank you! Your post was very much needed and not long enough with that type of wisdom you were providing and especially for someone who is known to writing small novels on my post :) Ok, so I totally missed that the agent commission was based on ARV. I was still thinking wholesaling price - thanks! And yes, I heard about the 'fudge' expenses...I should incorporate them in my calculations going forth.
So here's the update....unfortunately guys I never heard back from seller :( . I think I messed up when I kept saying it was me and my partner buying the house. When the seller started asking who my partner was, I knew not to say that I'm a wholesaler and what I'm really doing is shopping your house to be bought....so I simply gave him a name of my well known friend who is actually an investor, he has several properties he holds and has a website just in case he decided to check. I told my friend what I said on the spot and I don't think he liked that either. I'm not good at lying and I don't like it...is there a way to say what I do without scaring the sellers off? I found this post (I will copy and paste it later where he tells the sellers what he does, I love that but am not sure will that hinder my numbers of sealing a deal.
Anyway, I've gone too far to stop now...I went on listsource.com and bought a listing for Essex, Union county cities (SFR, Multi 1-4, last sale date 1950-2006, equity 90-100%, absentee owners AND live-in owner) Side note: I listened to BP podcast who said his return is greater when he adds the live-in owners, can you believe that?! I was always told absentee. Anyway, I created my yellow letter and did my mail merge to send out on Friday...and guess who will be on that mail direct? Yup, my initial wholesale property...(I've been told you send out several post cards to the same house anyway, so I can add him just in case he changes his mind)
Anyway I appreciate @Karen O. for your prayers, (Prayer is powerful thing so I know something good is coming my way- thank you)
@Jeff Stewart see, I told you I write small novels. thanks again guys!