@Jay Hinrichs Appreciate the extensive post for perspective.
Isn't a wholesaler more of an investors "agent"? From a traditional perspective, we have agents and the MLS. Agents get paid a percentage of the sale price. So larger sales price = larger commission. The seller has a clear benefit from this as well. The buyer, not so much. Even a buyer's agent benefits from the sales price being higher. So who in that scenario is looking out for the investor?
Granted: We could get into a discussion about the ethics of an agent, in which we would go in circles. Ultimately that conversation would be no different than the ethics convo of a wholesaler.
I'm also not really trying to make a case for wholesalers really "looking out" for an investor. As that isn't accurate either. Rather, they have a mutually beneficial relationship among their business models. I do agree with you in regards to wash out. Wholesaling is far more inclined to those who excel in marketing an analytics, in my opinion. It is essentially lead generation for real estate investors.
Even through execution though @Shawn Ackerman, I do believe that wholesalers shouldn't have to mask intention what so ever. Your buyers vs the MLS buyers are completely different and you should be present it as such. There are advantages and drawbacks to both.
"Shawn, my name is Riley Gilson and I'm reaching out to you in regards to the ABC St property you're looking to sell. I work w/ a lot of real estate investors and I think your property may fit into several of their portfolios. I'd like to discuss a sales price with you, so that I can circle back with them, with a firm number in hand. Is now a good time?"
At no point were you making any statements as to your intention to buy the property. You clearly stated why someone should work with you. AND you were honest/direct the entire time. Now you do your job and provide the value benefit to both parties. Someone's house is sold, someone gets a deal and you get paid.
I would think if more people presented themselves (and please note Shawn I'm obviously making said statements based off this one forum, I don't assume that you are unethical or immoral as others would - simply having a conversation on a mutual topic) in this manner, they would still do business and wouldn't get so much flack or reputation damage/challenges from investors who have been screwed by those who HAVE Been dishonest and ultimately sucked at their job. @John Thedford might even quit bugging wholesalers...... just kidding, we all know better.