oh no! @Jay Hinrichs
I don't think you're full of crap .... .... no matter how many others you say think you are!
in regards to my ability to close, I believe I can close! I have talked to the executor and I did tell her that I could close the deal. I have expressed that I can close........ verbal agreement. I told her , I know how difficult it is for her at this time for being the personal representative and grieve at the same time. I told her I wanted her to consider my offer and for her to take her time!
I gave her a verbal commitment but no contract. So if she has to take 3 or 4 more weeks grieving and liquidating other things in the will , its best! In the meantime I will take this time to continue to look for investors.
and in the event that I can not.... I will tell her, mam I don't believe I can close on this.
Jay Hinrichs, its people like you that I look up to! I want to be a developer, like you.... an investor.... an entrepreneur! Im a newbie.... but hopefully one day with guidance I can be as successful as you! Im not going to be a know -it -all -or as savvy as the next person, but every day is a step closer, so you may think its "mudd" but the purpose of me asking the question in this forum was for savvy individuals like yourself to educate me instead of using rhetoric to tear me down.
since your old school im pretty sure you have heard the term, you can catch more flies with honey than you can with vinegar," .... ...