@Jake Doub First, I'd start by adding a picture here, so that people can see who they're dealing with. Also, spend some time crafting your profile. Definitely sign up for every single free webinar you can and read everything you can get your hands on.
Next, I'd start checking around to see where meetups are happening near you. Maybe Annapolis? Or maybe you do some serious driving and head out to some in DC or Baltimore. It sounds like you don't have custody, so maybe there's one happening on nights you don't have family commitments.
Rebuilding after a divorce is not fun, but it will happen with time. Same with your credit score. Definitely check out the personal finance boards here.
If you boil it all down you're in the same boat as a lot of people here in that they don't have the capital to start immediately. But you have experience. So learn how to analyze deals, find great ones, take them to your local REI groups - or to people you met here while participating on the boards and find the people who have money but no experience or no time. Be someone that brings value to every interaction you have.
Since you're rebuilding anyway, now might be a great time to house hack to help reduce your own housing expenditures and allow you to get back on track with your own mortgage. Best wishes.