WARNING this might sound like whining but it's written like this so you can understand my frame of mind.
My experience so far:
Spent all of 2020 getting OUT of debt. My credit score went from 620 to 778. DTI went from 91% to 19% saved $12K in cash. Found an excellent realtor that understands what I'm trying to accomplish. She is an investor too. (Can hardly contain my excitement!)
August: Went to tax sale, bid on several properties, didn't win any. Most went for nearly retail prices. So NO deals just duds. (no problem I will keep looking)
September: Went to Court Sale, didn't win, was out bid by 20K. So I decided to find a partner. (still very optimistic and busy finding answers to my problems)
October: Found a Partner, he's a HVAC and Electrical contractor with experience flipping, only problem is he doesn't have much to spend right now. He has several jobs going on is low on cash. He is willing to help and fund what he can . Also willing to complete whole house rewire and brand new HVAC install if I find good deals but I have to come up with most of the money for the initial purchase of the house, I only have 12K in cash. (happy but getting frustrated)
November: Contacted hard money lenders, since I have no deals under my belt hard money has been hard to come by. I have found three that are trying to help but I just don't have the cash in reserve they need me to have. (irritation beginning to set in)
December: Decide to increase my funnel size. Started a driving for dollars campaign. (no responses yet but it makes me feel better, I will keep it up)
January: Spoke to several banks and many are wanting to loan me money but I'm waiting on my 2020 taxes to be filed before they can proceed. (Feeling better but nervous about missing good deals)
January 12th: Offered 20K over asking price for a house that I know I could have flipped and made 40K profit. Lost the deal because the owners took a full price offer of cash. Which was 20K less than what I offered! UGH!!! (This no money situation is getting on my nerves.)
The next day January 13th: Holy @#$%^&*&^%$#@#$% it happened again!! I made another offer over asking but they took the lessor amount in cash. I missed out on another 40K in profit! (I can't believe this!!)
The above is shortened story of my journey so far. I have made connections with many people and have submitted dozens of offers not listed above so it's not for lack of trying. I got to be missing something. I know that it's not going to be easy and I expect to get rejected 999 times out of 1000 but it just feels like I could have done more or better. I just can't see what it is. I thought that if I find good deals and have the drive/skill the money will find me, but that hasn't been the case. If I'm doing things right and this is normal please let me know so I can accept it and continue. If it's not please tell me.