Hey Josh, I really like your post. It says so much that is so true, not just about real estate, about life. We often do things with our own personal goal or goals in mind that start out being self serving. We aim for this magical destination called success, or financial freedom. There may be a dollar goal in mind, whether it be monthly or annually. Along the way, there are so many ups and downs, and diversions while traveling this road and we often begin to realize that other people are affected by everything we do, whether we talk to them directly or not. We begin to question our motives, and intentions and even upon reaching some of our goals, our happiness. Yet again, what is happiness? It is different for everyone and while there absolutely nothing wrong with the pursuit of financial goals, success or freedom, we often find that there is so much more than this.
I have been in involved in Real Estate investing for almost 20 years, and have multiple rentals, rehab or build multiple houses annually, lend hard money, wholesale at times, coaching and mentoring along the way, and more. Throughout this process, I have interacted with hundreds if not thousands of others and in one form or fashion, have truly impacted lives. I have been fairly "successful" though I have still not reached my "goals" and continue the pursuit. Things have changed for me over the last several years as the money is great, the freedom is simply that I work for myself, out of my home, when and how I want. The most satisfying and fulfilling part, is when I am helping others to better understand this business and how to best achieve their goals. I am spending much of my time in this arena now with everything that I do.
After all these years and experience, I formally started a coaching and mentoring company for these exact reasons and the fact that there is much hype on real estate investor training and coaching in this country. There is absolutely no reason that anyone should pay $25-50k to learn about real estate investing. I have met so many people that have spent their last dime that they cannot even begin to start their real estate business. While I cannot afford to do this for free, I can do it cost effectively for anyone, anywhere, that is interested or willing to learn. I have spent most of my life in the personal development space, taking classes, and seminars, reading books, listening to audio, etc. I am also sharing all that I have learned there with my clients and students. Investors need to understand about people, communication, finance, business, technology, and the list goes on. There is more to all this than real estate investing, there is life. There is more than houses and properties, there are human beings. This is truly what it is all about, not money or property, PEOPLE. You realize success, freedom, and happiness, is not a destination, it is a JOURNEY. You are the sum of the amount of people that you have helped along the way. You realize that if you help others first, everything that you can dream of will come to fruition. Congratulations for reaching this point along your journey! We are soul brothers my friend. There is still so many people to help and so much to learn...