@Ashley Benning, I have a blended view of the information you have been provided thus far, as I also struggled with where I was going to get money for RE investing. I have a very healthy 401K with my employer (who matches 50% of my input up to 3% of my salary) and my investments are diversified in the fund across 12 holding areas. I checked my statement and earned over 13.5% last year, and 11.8% the year previous to that. Frankly, I have earned well into the double digits in interest on the 401K since 2009, as that was the beginning of the bull run in the Stock Market that we are still on now.
The word "diversification" has been thrown around here in the thread a few times, and that is my draw to wanting to move some of my investing into real estate for long term buy-and-hold. I know that I could continue investing in my 401K, work through to retirement and finish strong (barring any unforeseen economic catastrophe), but the sexiness of real estate brings more investment diversification, through:
1. cash flow
2. appreciation
3. depreciation
4. expense deduction
So, like another poster mentioned, I knew that I needed an additional source of income to fund my REI pursuits, as the returns that I am getting on my 401K now is pretty good (one of my parents retired 4 years ago with only her 401K mutual fund investments (drawing 4% of total) and one rental property (600/mo cash flow, condo paid off), and believe me, life is good for her, so there is no "doom and gloom" if you have only a 401K as a retirement vehicle).
Although many may disagree, I personally would advise against dropping your 401K investment to save money for REI. Why? Because we are still in a stock market bubble, and your gains will be pretty high there, compared to your entry level real estate investing. Many will disagree with this, but my risk tolerance is low, thus I am not as willing to "let it ride" on a RE investment unless the long term numbers pan out for my goal (I look for turnkey properties, fully rehabbed with $300 per door cash flow, 20% down, midwest markets).
There is a caveat here. I would adjust my answer depending on your age and your risk tolerance. If you are between 25-35 years old (I think you are 33), since you have a low 401K balance, you can almost STOP your 401K investment, as the tax benefit and interest appreciation you are getting may be low and could be replaced by your real estate cash flow, depreciation and expense deduction on a rental property (especially if the cash flow is invested in another retirement vehicle). Plus, you have a heck of a lot of years for buy-and-hold, allowing the tenant to buy your investment, before you may need substantial cash flow from the property, so time is on your side. I am over 50, with a young family, thus my risk tolerance and conservative nature for investing is much lower than many (plus, I got burned bad during the last RE downturn due to buying investments at market price peak conditions).
Many posters here have earned the ability to use their RE investments to retire early (and most likely they were not investing in a 401K during their accumulation period), but that has to be through a combination of frugal lifestyle (while accumulating assets) and learning to live within their means monthly, after the goal is reached.
You certainly have a lot to think about, but I tell you there is no wrong answer here, as long as you are saving for your future and investing in something that will bring a healthy return.
Hope this helps.