@Anna Antipkina Merry Christmas and Happy new year to you as well! I know from personal experience with having an STR that a great cleaner is so important. I have been through my fair share of cleaners, but now have an incredible one now. I would honestly say yes over communication is better than none, but I get over communication can be frustrating.
I have found when I lay out in the interview process what I am looking for and what they can expect from me it works. Just let her know when really needs to communicate and thank her for being so attentive (of course if she isn't she needs to go anyway). What are the important items are for you? Mine are letting me know if anything is broken and needs to be replaced, when items are low and need to be restocked, and if she is running late for the next guest check in. Other than that we just exchange a few pleasantries and an occasional I send her bonuses just to say how much I apricate her ( I factor this into my cleaning fee).
Wishing you the best!