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All Forum Posts by: Marie Withelidua

Marie Withelidua has started 1 posts and replied 16 times.

Originally posted by @Russell Brazil:

Instead of being neighborly and asking them to keep it down, you try to make a scene by passive agressively standing there and making wise *** comments.  You yell at them out the windows you see aid. You call the police 30 times etc, instead of having a civilized conversation with your neighbors.

 They are not civilized. They have laughed when I've asked them to keep it down. And, my screaming was due to their blasting music or being excessively loud. If you spoke quietly, they'd never hear you. 

And, it SHOULD be common sense to know if one lives in a neighborhood to keep it down after hours, common sense isn't common, nor is comprehension.

Originally posted by @Shaun C.:

My first home was in an area that was more up and coming. The first tenants next to me were perfectly quiet. Then they moved. On the very first day the new tenants, a group of three 24 year old stoners; I had to open my window and tell them that they weren't allowed to be banging on their brake rotor with a metal mallet at 11 pm. Then it was being woken up by their vehicle with a broken muffler everyday at 6 am. Finally on Easter Sunday at 10:30pm when they were out in their garage revving a friends car engine they were working on, my gf had enough so I went out shirtless in my shorts and told them all I'd had enough and ripped the keys out of the car and threw them down the driveway.

This behavior would be on and off over the course of a two years and finally I reached out the the PM who ended up being useless, and finally got a hold of the owner and convinced him to get rid of her and/or the tenants. He kept the PM but put in much better people now. I don't live there anymore but still own the duplex and my tenants have no complaints anymore.

Squeaky wheel gets the grease. You own your home. I definitely would not be letting renters or a ****** landlord disrupt enjoyment of my own home that I own. Go to city hall, go to the police department. Raise hell until city officials don't want to see your face anymore and they tell the cops to make it hard on the people.

 Shaun: you're right. It definitely requires being the constant squeaky wheel. I have contacted the police each time now that there's been a noise incident. I also have contacted the county commissioners and copied the sheriff's department - detailing how this incident has played out with the 30+ calls.

The county commissioners are the ones that estate how the noise ordinance is set up, in which law enforcement has to catch the culprits in the act.

I will continue to report them as I want them to move. I and my family are tired of being tired and tired of feeling like we have to be on their schedule or we are in the wrong for the right to peace within our house.

Originally posted by @Thomas S.:

Contact the welfare office and report the situation directly to their handler. If they have people living there illegally you may be able to get some results. You could also report the situation to the buildings department and see if there are occupancy violations. Report any and all property violations to the inspector to apply pressure on the owner. File a report with child welfare and you may get lucky. Be persistent as your goal is to make their lives miserable enough to force them to move. Stay on top of the welfare office with repeated complaints.

You need to do what their landlord is unwilling to do. 

 Thomas: I did contact the building and inspections person. They sent someone out when none of them were home, which was amazing to me. I followed up with the guy and he said they weren't home and there was nothing more that he could do. I didn't try the other steps, but I will do that.

Originally posted by @Heather DeGeorge:

I’m curious to know how you know “All of them collect some type of government assistance” or whether/when they work?  I assume you work all day and it doesn’t sound like you have a relationship with them. 

Sell it. It doesn’t sound like you are cut out to be a landlord for this property. You’ve noted a decline in the neighborhood above and beyond your neighbors. Who do you think will be renting from you?  And you cannot legally screen the way it sounds like you might want to.

Not many buyers study the neighborhood believe it or not. Regardless, selling is going to be your best option until you learn more about being a landlord and property classes and the pros and cons of each property class and how to manage those. You can learn all of that here, but it’s unwise to become an accidental landlord in your situation. Get what you can out of the property and move on. 

Best of luck to you!

Heather: they argued in their front yard about waiting for their checks and who was covering what bills. My vanity sits next to the window that faces adjacent to them, so unfortunately I was privy to their very loud argument in the front yard. 

I don't know any of them, just based on my observation of living adjacent to them and having to hear what they're saying as the one lady in her 30's is the loudest, even when she's in the front pacing while on her phone. 

I agree that selling would be the best alternative, as I don't want the headache of renting. It would be the lesser of the headache. 

I hope what you mentioned is true regarding some not studying the area before buying, because I know how much I do and will continue to. I do know that studying the area doesn't stop who will end up being your future neighbor though. 

Originally posted by @Amanda G.:

Sounds rough. Who owns the house? Perhaps getting the landlord/PM involved might make a difference.  In the meantime, investing in earplugs is a short term option.

 Amanda: The nuisance and abatement officer have tried to contact the owner. He has no interest in what they do, as long as he's being paid on time. Thanks, I'm going to try sleeping with headphones on. 

My apologies in advance for being verbose, but the details are necessary. I've been living in my home for 7+ years and I've seen the neighborhood change with some property owners renting out their homes instead of selling them.

In that span of time, I have dealt with and encountered a slew of issues from many of the renters - the noise ordinance issue being the biggest complaint, based on many of the culprits blasting loud music from their cars at all hours of the day and night, with no regard for the time of day and who they were disturbing.

Yes, I have called, the police - along with other neighbors, but being that I have lived the closest - with the culprits either living beside me, across from me and now adjacent to my bedroom windows as the others have either moved or stopped.

The other issues have been lessened, like the previous renters shooting as they have moved, but all of this tension has been building. The main culprit, which are the renters living adjacent to my bedroom windows: are what I presume to be family of 8 to 10 people: an old man, an older woman, another woman in her 30's and another woman, a man, 3 toddlers and 2 high school aged kids - all living in a 3 bedroom/2 bath home. How? I don't know how that's allowed as it should be illegal.

The adults constantly party in the front yard. They have cookouts in the front yard. They have get-togethers - all in the front yard regularly. The noise is constant. I would not care what they did - if it did not affect my right to the quiet enjoyment of my home. Me and my family have either had to plan our sleep around when they would stop partying in their front yard, which is adjacent to our bedrooms.

Also being awakened by them has been spectacular - nothing beats being jarred awake at 6:15am by a toddlers screaming at the top of their lungs horse playing in the front yard. After they awakened all of us at 2:'35am while they were being loud while they were drinking and hanging out in the usual place - in the front yard.

All of them collect some type of government assistance, so I am surprised that this is being allowed as far as this many people living in one house. I thought there were guidelines in place for how many people were allowed to rent a house?

I have ended up asking them to keep down by having to shout out of my window, because of the time of night and the noise.

However, when I was awakened at 2:35am, this had been building for over a year of being awakened so many times or having to wait for them to stop their festivities in the front yard and to quiet down - I snapped. I went outside after I called the cops and both times the officers went by, they'd be quiet, so the officers wouldn't hear them being loud.

They keep the lights in the front off while they're "hanging out" so that makes it difficult for officers to see what's going on until they get up on the house - by that time, they have quieted down long enough for the officers not to see or hear anything.

I got tired of the 30+ calls regarding their noise not making a difference in how much noise they consistently made daily and out of a week - they would average at least 4 nights out of the week to be a complete and utter nuisance.

So after being awakened at 2:35am and seeing their usual ploys, I went to stand where they could see me and proceeded to stand there for five minutes before they realized that I was standing there.

The old man asked: "are you okay?" To which my reply was that I would have been fine if I were still asleep. The man then asked if they were being loud. I replied that I enjoyed being jarred awake at 2:35 and coming out of the house in my pajamas. They never once said: hey sorry for waking you. They really do assume that they're entitled to be as noisy and loud as they want to.

So that led to being jarred awake at 6:15am by the toddlers and then them being excessively loud during the early morning thereafter. I snapped again and proceeded to yell out the window, which got their attention. I told them how loud they always have been and they're not the only ones that live here. The one lady threatened to hit me with a brick, which I told her if she wanted to go that route. She also said "we're gonna have a party" and I said "good, I'll come too."

The nuisance and abatement officer is involved, but they have limited resources and he is pretty much a one man show in handling these issues. The owner of the property is useless as he does not care what they do as long as they send him the rent check. He does not even live in the same state and the most response that I've gotten from him are nasty responses.

I own and am contemplating selling, but my plight is that none of them work, so they're home hanging out, being loud all the time. I know educated buyers study the neighborhood before they buy. I am dreading that they'll be just as much of a thorn if I sell.

In the interim, I halfway thought about trying to approach the one lady that I exchanged words to try to smooth things over, but I don't know if that will resolve anything at this point. It's been over a year with these same ongoing issues. Your thoughts and advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.