@Adriana Arnold
So sorry to hear you are going through this. I am going through something similar though clearly not as bad:
I bought a house to live in end of 2019 (Nassau County NY). Couldn’t start work for about 15 months so I figured I would rent it out in the meantime. I got hit with a crazy dry spell of no one in the area looking to rent and couldn’t rent this house (or a few others) for months. I ended up taking a rent that was well below market rent that didn’t even cover my mortgage but was better than nothing (or so I thought). Tenant paid rent for a few months, every month late with another excuse (eventually I think they ran out of family “deaths”) and then stopped in November, the rent is 5k a month so their balance now is quite substantial. In current market conditions I could easily get 7k, though more importantly I need them out to start work, however I’m not ready to do the work because they wont let my architect and contractor into house (they are scared of Covid, strange how every time I come check out the house, no home is home, guess they go for family drives and don’t leave the car) so I’m struggling to finish the plans but should manage to finish in 3-5 months despite this.
Tenant says they aren’t paying rent because my wife told them before they signed the lease they could stay for many years (my wife denies this but I cant confirm one way or the other). Lease signed is a one year lease and we talked multiple times after they moved in about how we want to start work about March 2021 and they still paid rent, just late every month, so I don’t know what triggered them to stop paying based off this excuse. They told me because we lied to them they cant pay rent till they save up enough money for moving costs which they tell me is 20k (1st
months rent, last months rent and security deposit plus actual moving costs). They are well past saving that money and still refuse to pay on the basis that we lied to them about how long they can stay. They keep promising me they are honest working people and will pay me back every dollar, wishful thinking
To top it off, they have 2 sub tenants that are paying about $1,800 total a month (it’s a large house, we were ok with this up front), so they are making money off of this! They have a dog which is lease does not allow, wonder if that can help me, neighbors complain it barks all night. Was really hoping NY would end the eviction moratorium, but they just extended to end of August and I really have no hope of them getting out any time soon.
I’m struggling with what to do, on one hand I can aggressively offer them money to leave (which is very difficult for me), on the other they owe me over 30k now and growing and I’m not ready to do work anyhow, so is it worth getting them out now when house will just sit vacant on slim chance that I can get some money from them one day? Getting them out a few months ago and re renting at 7k a month for a year was appealing, but what’s the point now?
I thought I have it bad, its been consuming me for months but your situation seems is way worse, I feel petty writing out my story after reading yours. They say misery loves company, but I did not enjoy at all reading your story, it just makes me boil inside how tenants think this is ok and the government lets them get away with it.