@Alicia Marks
I currently have a total of 10 Partners and built those Partnerships over 21 Years. This includes 2 of my Brothers, several friends and a few that were recommended to me.
Without Partners, we could not have built a $20 Million Portfolio in Brooklyn, NYC.
Also, Partners help with Diversifying the Risk of the Investment. There has been several times where we need a few hundred thousand in unanticipated renovations, generally to transform the property into it's best and highest use.
In my 21 years of Partnering, which has been a huge success, I value honesty and responsibility to be the most important part of the Partnerships. Your Partner could say a lot of things, such as "Yes, I'm an experienced, responsible person." If they lied, you better know before you think about having that person as a Partner.
To make sure my Partners are honest and responsible, they go through a very meticulous procedure:
1) They MUST provide their Credit Reports. If they do not have a FICO Score of 740, I reject them. Having a poor credit score shows they may be irresponsible AND will cause a problem should we apply for Credit in the future as many Banks require a personal guarantee and good FICO Scores for the absolutely best rates.
2) They MUST have cash reserves AND make a good income. I don't Partner with people who don't have reserves. Also, good income can demonstrate that they are capable of attaining a higher level of achievement which comes into play when I teach them how to do their financial calculations.
3) They MUST learn all the Financial Calculations and can put together a 10 Year Business Plan. If they don't understand the Calculations, then it demonstrates that they may be incapable of understanding the details of how we are to achieve our Goals. Failure to understand Financial Calculations results in very poor communications. For instance, while many on the forum talks about Cash on Cash Return, this is a very poor calculation in big Metros. It's much better to understand the Internal Rate of Return (IRR), Discounted Cash Flow, Future Value (FV), Cap Rates, Appreciation Values given a Rate, etc. I will teach my Partners so that they understand the language in which we communicate with. When they learn the IRR and add it to the 10 Year Business Plan, there is absolutely NO issue with Communications.
4) They MUST pass a Criminal Background check. I have know several failed Partnership that wound up being Convicted of crimes, usually wire fraud. My procedures ensure that will never happen in my Partnerships.
I also want to point out that you do not EVER want to get into a legal battle with your Partners. Only the Attorneys will win. I personally witnessed a Joint Venture that fell apart because the General Partner (GP) was depositing the Partners money into his own Personal Bank Account. Additionally, the GP, claimed that the Rental Market was soft and couldn't find Tenants for the building. The GP in fact, DID rent the Apts but was pocketing the Rents.
By the time that the Limited Partners won their case, the Attorneys took so much money that their Principal was decimated. It was very difficult to sue the GP to remove him from that position. You really need to make sure that the GP is as honest and responsible as much as yourself.
During the trial, it was revealed that the GP declared Bankruptcy not just once, but TWICE. Additionally, he had a history of fraud.
NONE of the Limited Partners ever checked that GP's Criminal Background and Credit History, which would have prevented the Limited Partners from ever becoming part of this Joint Venture.
Basically, my Partners are evaluated at a higher level that I evaluate a tenant. They must also be able to qualify for a Jumbo Loan as it's required here in NYC.
In return, my Partners all know my Credit Score (I have an 850 FICO right now), Net Worth and Experience. There really isn't a better Partner than myself. Also, I don't need Partners anymore.
This puts me in a great position to be incredibly picky with choosing my Partners.
I'm not saying you should do all that I mention, but when you consider that you might get a Partner that has a very low FICO score, no cash reserves, and is well below your Net Worth, why would you choose that Partner?
It's the same way I evaluate a Financial Advisor. If the Financial Advisor does not have a good Credit Score and their Net Worth is not greater than mine, why would I choose that Financial Advisor since I'm doing so much better than them? That doesn't make sense.
If you think about it, the more you have to offer in the Partnership, the more you should be picky in choosing your Partner.
When you bring a lot to the Table and demand every Partner have skin in the game and meet a high qualification, that should mitigate getting into a bad Partnership.
Another way to think of this is to understand how large Corporation chooses their Board Members. Why would they choose someone that has little Experience, no responsibility and doesn't understand the business?
Also, I don't care if you are my relative, you have to go through the same evaluation.
Maybe the above isn't for everyone, but it has worked for me over 2 decades.