"It is a shame a new landlord will treat a paying tenant like crap. Now when she moves, and your next tenant is a crack head and stop paying and damage your property you should be happy."
Joe, I am hardly new at this as you assume. ( New to this site but not new as you state, not sure why? ) My family has been in real estate since the 1950s and I am 3rd generation. Tenants do pose unique situations to all owners/investors and so I was simply deciding if I should enforce my lease and systems or allow the tenant to decide how things should play out. I am very happy that I did not allow this tenant to skip out on me or remain as a holdover. I have many past tenants who I am now friends so assumptions on how I run things are not helpful.
I appreciate the other replies . I do use an excellent real estate law firm and a landlord service company that provides excellent leases and other services such as credit screens to avoid crackheads, damage etc. Both firms have great leases. I only need to ad an auto renewal to make my leases complete. I often use addendums to permit pets and other circumstances as well.
I have had few problems as a landlord and I credit this largely to following legal advice and having a management systems in place. But situations arise where I think of deviating from my systems which is why I made my original post. On occasion I have deviated to accommodate a tenant. For instance I had a tenant who lost his job last winter. He contacted me and explained. He was with me for 5 years so I let him move without any problems and leased the place in in Feb with no problem. My systems said no he can't but you have to work outside of that framework at times I agree as others posted.
I attempted the same with this tenant but she felt no need to have any sort of dialogue. What did I have to gain by playing nice? Nothing, no goodwill as she had already planned on moving.
As to her credit rating, had she stayed as a holdover and ended up being evicted I would have posted it with the landlord service and had my attorney file the eviction for the world to see on a credit report. If I have to spend money to get someone to communicate and go to the point of an eviction then they should not be surprised when their credit stinks.
I am fine with an empty house for a bit. Greed makes one hope they get just one more month out of a tenant or let the tenant dictate/change the contract. Or the owner/investor is so overleveraged that they have to keep every tenant or risk being evicted themselves.
I may not be as flexible as others on this site but it works for me and for the majority of my tenants.
LM