@Spencer Cornelia I just listened to your podcast episode two days ago and read through your 6 part series. It is crazy how similar my process has gone. I just closed today on the sale of the second house and have ended the nightmare!
Similar to you I was doing well in real estate, had 3 cashflowing properties as well as my primary home and then thought it would be a good idea to flip some early 1900's homes. I bought these two houses that were next door to each other with a partner using hard money (3pts, 13% interest, and 1% extension fee every 3 months after the initial 6 month term). The plan was to have the properties completed in 6 months make some money and be on our way to real estate riches.
Turns out a lot of the framing was rotten and we had to completely reframe the back of one of the houses. This along with a multitude of other issues ate through every bit of reserves we had before we made much of a dent in these rehabs. This lead to piecing together payments here and there and drastically slowed the construction process and major cost overruns. I even sold my townhouse rental just like you sold your 4-plex to keep the process going. The first house sold after 15 months and the second was today after 20 months. All in all I will be loosing 10's of thousands.
This process killed all of my real estate momentum, but has ignited a drive to succeed. I learned so many lessons and the unfortunate thing is most of them are things I have heard or read before. We all hear great advice on the podcasts but until you go through the process it is hard to know what to do. After listening to @Brandon Turner and @davidgreene do the recap it is true that you sharing your story will save BP member millions of dollars. I know it would have helped me.
Now that I am out from under these two properties I am waiting on a HELOC on my primary to get approved I will be getting right back on the horse but with much smaller rehabs.
Below is the house that sold today.