Hey everyone! I've been wanting to get into real estate for a few years now and I've been quietly waiting for factors to be in my favor. I've got a small amount of savings, no debt, I make almost double the average income in my state, and I'm waiting for the next slowdown in the market to pounce with the cash I'll have saved up, hopefully being able to buy 3-4 units near the city.
What am I doing until then? I live at my parents house. I love my job. I travel very, very heavily. We split expenses at home. I enjoy the heck out of the garage I've built up over the past 9 years. I enjoy projects around the house. Let me come right out with it: I love that house. There's so many things I want to do, so many things I've started doing. It's right on the inside of one of the city beltways. The values, while not recovered to 2007, are going up. The town is cleaning up. I want to raise my kids there (or maybe not. I'm like 70% on that)
I became an uncle a few months ago! I really was never fond of babies, but you know, that one ain't so bad. I learned that they do eventually stop crying, and this one likes to tug on beards. I don't blame my mom at all, she practically lives with my sister now. Meanwhile, at home, there's a lot to do and I'm pretty stressed about it. The in-law apartment I've been living in flooded a few weeks ago when the hot water tank's water broke. The tree work we needed to get done was going to cost thousands. The stress of all the projects got serious. Suddenly it became apparent that the house wasn't going to be the best place for all of us. I encouraged my mom to think of downsizing, and she came up with the idea to move in down the street from her grand daughter.
That's when I realized that my plans had changed too. I would not be the reason they'd need a larger house, the key word here is "downsize." I would lose 2 decades of their work on the house and a almost a decade of mine. You see where I'm going with this? I could buy that house. I could build a detached garage in the back with separate road access and rent the house out separately. I could buy a small place in the city and bring the bare minimum with me while having "free" storage at home with the rest of the place waiting for a reno and for me to come home to it with a family. I could tell my kids how their grandma planted that 60 ft tall hemlock. Problem: Parents still need to buy a new place. I still need to pay them market value for it, the market is inflated, I would still need enough down payment left over to find myself a place to live.
Another part of me wants to liquidate EVERYTHING and let them buy/sell as they please. Breaks my heart, it's hard to state the time and effort I put into my garage stuff. It's my escape. But I'd end up with ~60k extra in the bank and I'd have nothing holding me down anywhere. I could move to another country. I can live life with no projects for a bit. I'd be effectively throwing out thousands of hours of my life, but it wouldn't be the first time.
Another part of me wants to buy my parents a new house, rent the old house out and balance those the income/payment between the places. My parents are, however, worried that I may encounter problems on my own and they don't want to be affected. Fair judgement on their part. Plus I would be pretty tied down to Massachusetts, having to manage tenants. I could hire a property manager for the old place, but that makes it a breakeven rather than a profit. Which is OK I suppose, since this is more about preservation than profit. But then again, all that money tied up in a breakeven when it could buy me multiple units in a few years? Purchasing my parents place at market value is going to actually cost me when the market invariably plunges and rent hits a low. I don't know if that'll cost less or more than selling everything I own at a loss.
Another part of me wants to build my parents a new place. They don't want the hassle of doing it, but I think it has some key benefits: Brand new, no maintenance. Lower heating and cooling cost. Can be built to what they'd like (walk-out basement, 2 bed, large kitchen, office, open living room) I can also build a 3 car garage with a short driveway, which mitigates a ton of other problems they (and I) face. If I spend 100k on land and 150k on construction, rent from the old house will cash flow, and we can split that money proportionally.
Does anyone have any better options? Any advice? Any combination of anything that may work better? I'm totally flustered by the possibilities and risks.
Apologies if this isn't the most coherent thing. It's hard to organize so many potential thoughts, and I've already rewritten this post twice.