Wow! This party is just getting good! ;-)
I would second @Chris Clothier comment about if anyone wants to come hang out and BBQ you are more than welcome. You can get to know me, my family, 3 kids, my story, why I started educating, come visit my acquisitions team in my office, head down to San Diego, and visit with my assistant, shoot you can even go visit my mom in Riverside and ask her about the 2 times I have made her cry since she has worked for me. Ask her what it is like working for me, ask her about the transactions she funds, paperwork she signs, and even ask her what it was like giving birth to an 11.6 lb baby breach!
If you stay a few days you might even hear more about my goals and dreams for the future, you might hear about some of my personal and family struggles, (including some pretty serious ones just this year) and probably MUCH more than you would ever want to know bc I can be a gabber. I could tell you about the deal I lost $50,000 on earlier this year and about 3-4 that I just talked to Vanessa (my assistant) about today that we will probably just about break even on or lose a little bit (but are happy to just get out of)
Then if you stay an extra day we can get into even more detail with my education business, and you might learn that the first 9 months I spend about 60 hours a week working on it with a negative monthly profit, and at one point (ok more than one point) considered throwing in the towel and calculated the cost of returning everyone's money to them. If you stay a few days my wife might tell you about some of the therapy sessions she has had to give me as I have continued down this path.
We all have stories, back grounds, reasons why we do things. I don't blame anyone for any of the comments they have made here. I'm sure you have your reasons so even though (as my wife can attest to) I can be overly sensitive I'll try not to take it to heart. I'm sure you are great people just trying to say and do what you think is right. You don't know me or my intentions and there are those who do take advantage of others (especially in this industry), so although I would prefer you actually read the entire thread, listen to my podcast, or talk to anyone who actually knows me personally before making accusations I can see where the assumptions would come from.
I've been investing full time for about 7.5 years now. In my first 2 years I spent over $40,000 on programs that promised the world and delivered very little in return. (I even won a car from one of them but it was never actually sent :-( )I don't regret joining those programs bc I met some great people and learned enough to help me get to the next level, and find great resources like some of the local RE clubs here in So CA, and great forums like this one. However I could/would never recommend them to anyone else bc I know they were mostly hype and their one and only objective was 1) How much money could they get out of my pocket, and 2) How often could they do it.
We all know of people out there who charge you $25,000 to let you come to as many "free" seminars as you can only to bring in 10 pitch masters and up-sell the heck out of you! (on products they often don't even use or believe in themselves) Not to mention then if you REALLY want to learn "the SECRET" you have to up the Annie to the $40,000 program.
Oh and then there's the program where "hey we're on TV" so we will send someone else to your town (they will hit all of them) to sell you on their program of $40,000 and then send you to some guy (college kid in a cubical) to "teach" you out of a manual.
So I totally get it. We have all seen it so we are skeptical. However once again I would hope that we would do just a little more due diligence before being too quick to point the finger bc there really are some great educators out there who although do run a business and want to make a lot of money, really do care about providing value and I am grateful for them bc I would't be where I am today if they weren't willing to figure out how they could create a business out of education and thus allow them to do it often and do it well.
You will be very hard pressed to find anyone (oh I'm sure they are out there) who listens to my podcast, has heard me speak, been to one of my seminars, or knows me personally that would have anything negative to say about me. ok I guess that isn't totally true lol. I'm sure there is plenty to say negative about me, but you can talk to just about anyone in my program and they will tell you (well I hope at least) that I have given (and continue to give) them 1,000% more than they ever paid for.
Also I have to mention that there are some of you on here who are saintly! I am not for one second going to pretend that I would be able or willing to spend even close to the time I spend on here or the time you spend on here if I didn't feel like there was a direct and VERY selfish benefit to me! and if the benefit were only one of the many items I get from sharing with others it just wouldn't be worth it. My hat is off to all of you who give so selfishly. I wish I could say with 100% honesty that I am doing the same thing but it wouldn't be completely true so I won't try to make seem that way.
Like others have mentioned they "would" document more but they have NO benefit so they DON'T do it.
I recall being in that position a few years ago. I would speak at investment clubs when asked. (@Aaron Mazrillo/Ryan Skalla's club being the first many years ago) after a while I kept hearing about this blog called Bigger Pockets. In all honesty at first I thought it was probably full of a bunch of arrogant snobs (I mean just the name itself) but was blown away once I checked it out and all of the amazing things people were sharing.
I tried to get more involved but it was just difficult to do on a regular basis and still run my business. (you can check some of my few previous posts from a few years ago) but would just get too busy to keep it up. I started a blog as well to share my journey but that just didn't last too long either. I would have a lot of people reach out to me who wanted to learn but I just didn't have the time or system to help them all and still take care of my family, grow my business etc. Once again the "selfish" person in me just couldn't justify keeping it going for the little value it gave me in return.
I've always loved sharing/educating. It's been a passion of mine for years, so when I was finally in a position to choose more of how I spent my time I decided to really go for it. But this time I knew I had to set it up the right way and do something that could really last and have an impact. I knew I had to actually create a business out of it. But what would everyone think? Would they hate me? Think I'm a sell out? Taking advantage of people? I mean after all that is what people do in this industry right?
That's what investors do right? Take advantage of people and "steal" their houses..."A bunch of Vultures is what they all are"...(I think we know otherwise...)
After much debate and back and forth, I finally decided to go for it, and see what I could come up with. Could I really come up with a program that offered tremendous value without taking advantage of others and really give more than anyone asked?
I wish I could say I crushed it! They came in droves! My prices were soo good that the word just spread like wild fire and everyone signed up! Not so much! If you think RE investing is hard try starting an education business. Anyone who has either done so or tried will know exactly what I am talking about, just like those of you who who have either had success or are working towards success in your RE business know just how hard it is.
I am happy to say that I have stuck with it and am VERY happy to say the past few months have turned a profit and last month was a GREAT month for my education business! It might be up there with the hardest I have ever worked in a single month, and I really appreciate my family for being so supportive and understanding. It's not easy going to teach a seminar knowing you are missing your son's football and daughter's soccer games, but sure feels great to help others on this crazy path to financial freedom which we are all striving for.
Once again if anyone wants to come meet up with me, get to know me personally, do an "audit" of sorts you are more than welcome to. I'm pretty much an open book, and you'll probably learn a lot more about me than you care to.
@Bill Gulley For you I will extend a personal challenge if you are up for it. I would like to fly you down to San Clemente to be a guest in my home. Come get to know my staff, learn more about my operations, (I might even show you my financials both from my house flipping and my education business.), Learn more about what I am trying to do and why, my past struggles Even more importantly hopefully you will get to know me and my family a little better, and what we really stand for. I can tell you are a great guy and really care about people so it would be my honor to have you as a guest. Let me know if you accept and we'll set a date and book flights. I really hope you do!
Have a great Friday everyone! Keep pushing, and most importantly enjoy the ride! :-)