@John Farady
Thanks John, you seem like a reasonable person and I appreciate the candor. I hope to continue it. And I will definitely update this blog upon attempting to make this happen.
I am not wife nor heir. The property is held is held in a trust and the trustee who did the reverse mortgage died. Her son is now the trustee. I don't read you have to be heir or wife. I read permissable party or other party with legal right to dispose of the property. See 206.125(4)(c) below. Thanks for bringing up trust because that may be a better way to convey title, or essentially not.
Sale by borrower or other permissible party. Where the HECM is not due and payable, the borrower or an authorized representative of the borrower may sell the property for at least the lesser of the outstanding loan balance or the appraised value. Where the HECM is due and payable at the time the contract for sale is executed, the borrower or other party with legal right to dispose of the property may sell the property in accordance with the amount established by § 206.125(a)(2)(ii). The mortgagee shall satisfy the mortgage of record (and the Commissioner will satisfy any second mortgage required by the Commissioner under § 206.27(d) of record) in order to facilitate the sale, provided that there are no junior liens (except the mortgage to secure payments by the Commissioner if required under § 206.27(d)) and all the net proceeds from the sale are paid to the mortgagee