@Tracy P.,
Welcome to the forums after checking out the podcasts! You're in the right place :)
I own some property in the East Bay and have furnished rentals up and down the peninsula, SF, and East Bay also. Quit my job last year (no commute!) and just travel around the world while running my business (officially, have my place in SF.)
Congrats on going through the fire, building your first place. That's a lot of stuff to deal with!! Curious.. are you planning on living in the multifamily you're talking about purchasing? 5+ units? Or more typical 2-4 unit residential?
Also, do you know what the highest, best use of your Sonoma property is, given its current zoning, user permit, and existing improvements? Is that why you're asking about a commercial real estate/investor in wine country? Might end up as a development deal? (if not for future development, you'd just be looking for a residential agent, right..?) (These questions should help us get you some good contacts)
Hopefully someone will pay up for the LEED Gold, but sometimes homeowners spend more on their "forever" home than may be justified by a pure investor-builder trying to maximize profit. Hopefully timing was on your side also, and added value through the construction price on the home.
I agree, the podcasts are awesome! A bunch of the interviewees will be coming out to Oakland in Oct if you can make it. (check signature) Lots of great networking in the Bay also. That's how I got to my goal in real estate, so I highly encourage everyone to get out there and meet people in person.
I agree with @Account Closed's meetup in Berkeley. I'd be out there if I weren't up in Seattle for the summer! Looking forward to meeting you in person when I get back and hear some about your home build. Sounds like there might be some interesting stories there!