I like where your head is at for Option #2. Sounds like the best way to go and you operate with integrity. Certainly get a Broker Price Opinion on the property value but also ask RE agents if they know or work with investors who would be interested in the property.
Another option (albeit more complicated) is this: Can you qualify for the conventional loan? If so, you could lease-option the property to a tenant-buyer, become the bank and seller-finance (this opens the door to more buyers than those that have to qualify for bank lending in order to buy the property from you outright).
Ask the new tenant-buyer for a $5,000 Non-Refundable Option Deposit and a monthly payment that will at least cover your monthly. I would also put in the lease that the tenant-buyer is responsible for paying homeowner's insurance, property taxes and all maintenance.
As to your question about financing with regards to rental payments, lenders will count 75% of monthly rental payments as income. Lender guidelines vary, but count on having at least 12-months of rental history in order to qualify that rental income. 24-months is preferred by most lenders.