Hey @Judd Meng, fellow 40's guy here getting started. It would have been great to get started younger but time to stop "shoulding" all over myself...
I'm in Castle Rock up the road from you and the market along the Front Range is expensive. I've been looking south into Pueblo and maybe the fringes of the Springs but I may end up going out of state for my investing. I've got two areas of interest based on family and the company I work for that will provide a lower price barrier so the capital requirements are significantly less.
House hacking is a non starter for me as I've got a 13 and 14 year old in school here in town and I can't justify the upheaval my family would go through for getting a rental property. Quite frankly, I get annoyed at how house hacking has become the de facto answer for getting started. It's not the silver bullet solution many throw it out there to be.
Some things to consider. Are you saving every last penny you can? Do you know where all your money goes right now? Do you own a primary home? You rent? Drive a fancy car? Have an expensive cable budget? Pushed a for raise at your job? You can probably scrape together more capital than you think by cleaning up your financial house. Start there. Budget. Stick to said budget. See what you'll be able to save by when and you'll be on your way.