hey @Megan Blasena! Welcome :)
First, you're in the right place. Second, there are a few things you can do now to leverage that anxiety and channel it into productivity. As an anxious person, myself, hindsight taught me a few of these things. I will preface this by saying I assumed you had a goal or two in mind heading into this.
1.) connect with local, investment-minded, mortgage lenders. This is so important, I can't stress it enough. any old lender doesn't cut it, and you'll want to meet someone who is responsive, has househacked/owns rental property themselves who can demonstrate their understanding and show you the way. The bottom line is, you have optionS, and you'll want to discuss the obvious and less-obvious creative ways to harness debt to progress forward to your next place. I know a few I can introduce you to if you'd like..
2.) Agree on your strategy with your partner. buy-and-hold long term rental, househack and rent your first primary, get a second vacation home with a 10% down program, buy out of state, build a tiny home... It may not be completely clear what makes the most sense for you at this time, but start to develop one or two of these that you see as the best pathway to your goals.
3.) read the market. connect, browse, analyze, drive, call. whatever you have to do to know what you get for what price, what rental rates are by the room, unit, 1-month, 3 month, etc. As you start to narrow your strategy this gets less cumbersome. There are some excellent resources out there to help you gather data to help you make a decision, but the most important part to do now while you're saving is to practice and learn what the market offers. This doesn't tell you "where you fit in the market" so much as it tells you how to spot a good deal when you see one!
4.) connect with a local investor-friendly realtor who owns rental property themselves and can demonstrate their knowledge of the market and strategies that set you up to win. They will bring along a multitude of connections and information to set you up best to hit your target.
last, I would just say try to avoid taking "easy-street". lots of people claim to say they have the quick and easy route to get you what you need fast. The best thing you can do is arm yourself with the knowledge to spot a deal yourself. Nowadays, you're much more likely to knock it out of the park focusing on something that has future potential than what looks good on paper as-is. Very few properties are just immediately cash-flowing to your expectation right out of the gate, and most (especially those newer) make money over several years of ownership and by putting in some early sweat-equity to improve the rate at which appreciation is earned. There will be up and down years, but you make money while you wait in this business, not when you buy or sell.
Reach out anytime! :) good luck.