@Alfonzo Roberts,
While it's great that everyone is willing to share their opinion about finding the funding first, I respectfully disagree. I think telling anyone in this business to find the funds before even starting to look for a deal does a great disservice to them; especially when their new. If a new investor doesn't have anyone in their circle with the funds, they will run around in circles for a long time trying to figure it out. Most new investors are told to find private money because hard money is too expensive. But what if it's a great deal and their only way to get it funded is with hard money? Many new investors die on the vine trying to find funds for a deal they don't have. Many new investors die on the vine because their not out there working multiple things at a time. It's not easy being new. It's not easy to find funding when your new.
I'm not just a lender and I'm not saying this because I think everyone should only borrow from me. I'm not the best fit for every investor. I'm saying what I'm saying because I play both sides of the fence. My business partner & I are investors, lenders and we run REIA's. We also attend several others that our friends run both around our state and when we travel. My opinion is based on watching countless new investors come in with dreams of being successful only to have them crushed by well intentioned but impractical advice. I've watched a lot of investors at every REIA (mine and others) I have every attended flounder because of this.
The reason you need to do them both at the same time is because an investor (especially a new one) needs to figure out what kind of properties they want to go after. They also need to figure out what their lenders want to finance. Not all lenders will fund a deal just because the investor thinks it's a good deal. Most lenders have a taste for one kind of deal over another. You have to figure out if that lender is a good fit for what you're shopping for. You will likely need to line up multiple lenders. And then... You have to put the two together if you want to make the deal a no-brainer for the lender. A really good lender is your financial partner in the deal.
And, while it is important to create a relationship with a lender... Consider this from the lenders point of view... How can a lender give any kind of meaningful commitment to anything without the property being in place? It doesn't matter whether you are using Hard Money or Private Money; the situation is the same. The funds are only tentatively pre-approved. All the lender can say without the details is... "I think I like you and I think I like what you're about to do". A pre-approval is completely worthless because there's no meat behind it. If you've ever read a pre-approval letter from a lender, they are about as non-commital as can be. I've never seen a pre-approval from a lender that is worth more than the paper it was written on; mine included. All pre-approvals can be backed out of in the blink of an eye. The lender may like what you're trying to do, but hate the property. Then what? Most new investors stop looking for lenders to work with as soon as they find their first one (bad idea - they need multiple). Now they have a property under contract that they thought they had funding for, but no where to go. It really tarnishes a new investors reputation when they bail on their first deal because they didn't work on marrying the two together properly. Our reputation is our most valuable asset that we have. As both an investor and as a lender, I can't tell you how many times I've seen this happen.
Another thing to consider when your creating a relationship with a lender; especially a private lender... If you approach a lender and they like you and potentially want to invest with you, you have to get out there and hustle hard. If you don't find a deal fast enough, what do you think the investor will do with their cash? Every day you don't help them keep it busy, they are losing money. It's highly likely that they will have funded someone else's deal by then. This is why all investors need more than one lender in their contact list.
Sorry for rambling. Hopefully it sheds a little light onto the subject from a lenders point of view.