Originally posted by @Russell Brazil:
A 3 hour commute? Thats the distance from New York City to Washington DC. If i were an underwriter, I wouldnt believe it either.
A co-worker of mine did a 2-1/2 plus commute from Philadelphia to NYC everyday. I didn't know him that well and I was even shocked that he did it for 30 years. He did it by bus though. Says he gets up 4:00am and in the office by 9:00am. I learned this at his retirement party.
I thought no one else does that till my wife had a co-worker that bought a house in Philadelphia, and commuted to downtown Manhattan every day. We were house hunting in NYC, and in the early 80's, a SFR in good areas go for 150K in the high interest environment of over 15% for mortgages.
I got invited to the co-worker's house in Philly. They got the house for around 40K, a mansion that needs a little work on it's own lot. The had three times the room for a third of the price in NYC. He tells me they ran across a number of others doing the same since he moved there. So for them, the commute was worth it.
Back then, Philly prices were ridiculous low compared to NYC and even thought of doing the commute ourselves. Unfortunately all the good paying jobs are in NYC, such as finance and IT. My wife's friend in Philly got a $20,000 inheritance, bought a duplex for $40K, the tenant rent covered the mortgage and she lived rent free from day one. She was 27 years old just out of college a few years at the time. She was fortunate to be stock broker for Dean Witter, made enough to pay the mortgage off in 4 years.
Having considered it, we house hunted ourselves in Philly for a while, it's a choice of getting and keeping a good paying job, maintain a career path and live in a dump, or have the same good paying job, and living somewhere you rather be but enduring a long commute. Yes, we took choice one, we stayed in NYC, and the place we got was a dump compared to Philly.