Welcome to the BP community Mary! I am in pierce county, but used to live in Lacey so i know the Olympia area as well. In order to make a decision like this it's time to compare numbers. How much would your property rent for? I am curious to know why you think it won't cash flow? If you are looking strictly at long term rents and the numbers don't work, have you considered other strategies? In Washington,with it's high prices , we often need to get creative to make properties cash flow. Short term renting lends to a higher cash flow than the traditional rent. You could also look into renting by the room, either long or short term. I have also noticed a sweet spot, depending on your location in Olympia, for mid term rentals to travelling professionals like nurses.
Try to run through some of these scenarios and see what type of income the property might produce before determining that it does not actually cash flow. If at that point it is still negative, then I would see what the home would sell for and see what the net proceeds I would receive might be. Look around and see what you could use that money for in CT and see if it would be a better return than your current situation. No one has a crystal ball so I would not count on continued double digit appreciation in home values here, but it would be a bonus if it continues.
let me know if you want to chat about any of this and welcome once again!