We bought a 2-unit house with a 203k rehab loan in 2008 with 3% down. We were young and broke. Had a $35k rehab budget, went over it. Moved in, got a tenant, thought we were done with money out and could relax and have him pay half the mortgage.
Day 1 of heating season the shared furnace quit on us. Young and desperate and inexperienced, we paid $10k for a new furnace (about 2x what it should have cost). With our rehab budget exhausted and no money in the bank, I put that sucker on a charge card and made payments for years, shuffling it from promo balance to promo balance.
A couple of months later, the tenant was complaining nonstop about being too cold. Windows were functional but 25 years old and pretty drafty and not opening and closing well. Young and inexperienced and anxious to please the tenant, we put in new windows in his unit and ours. But we got overwhelmed with choices and ended up with Renewal by Anderson at $1000 per opening (aobut 3x what we should have paid). Had to take out a loan on those windows that I paid monthly for years.
A month or two more go by, and our tenant has stopped paying rent and is badmouthing us to all the neighbors. I found out later he'd been kicked out of half the houses in the neighborhood. 5 trips to housing court later I finally got rid of him. Housing court arbitrator convinced us to agree to taking half the money he owed us, $50 a month, for 30 months. He had the gall to move right next door. I had to see him every day. You better believe he only made a few of those $50 payments before he stopped paying. I chased him for years but he still owes me money. I only gave up when he finally moved out of the neighborhood.
This business is HARD, especially when you are first getting started. And it can stay that way.
But on the bright side, we replaced him with a great tenant who stayed for 10 years with no issues. We hit the market well and were able to cash out refinance to buy a second, nicer property that we now live in. Then we waited and sold that first property earlier this year. We have turned that cruddy little 2-family with the blown furnace and the drafty windows and the nightmare tenant into 24 units of professionally managed housing in Texas. And those lessons I learned back then are serving me well now.
If you keep at it and you learn from your mistakes and you balance being a good landlord with not giving away the store, you will eventually do well in this business. It is absolutely not going to be easy. But it is possible. Keep your chin up.