You could try to FSBO it without using your realtor, or lease option, or Sub2 or any other number of creative strategies. There is a buyer for every property, the trick is to get them into it... The market should not determine if you make money any more than the wind tells a sailboat which way to travel. Personally, under these circumstances, I would probably sell with a lease option, get at least 15% down... So you are above market, who cares - the buyer you want probably can't get conventional financing anyways. You wrote that you owe 169K on the property, and comps are running at 130ish, no problem.
1st, what is your credit like, what are the terms of your loan?
2nd, IF you sold it FSBO you would have zero commissions, I understand that New York is a lawyer closing state so I would contact a closing attorney and find out what it costs to close a property with title work etc. [lets pretend it is $2500 for combined buyer and seller, I like numbers and atm I have none... ;) ] Ok so you NEED 169,000 + Closing Costs (2500) so you know that is 171,500 You market it for 179,900 as an FSBO and offer easy terms with Credit 560+, If the bank said "NO" we may say "Yes!"
Now you have the buyer who loves it and is qualified (ie Credit Score and Verified income) so you get the down payment of 15% ($26,985). You take that and pay your closing costs, leaving you $24,485, take your wife to a nice dinner, $24,400... From the numbers you gave us you have an effective 11% interest rate on your existing mortgage, assuming a 30-year original note... and about 24 years left on it. So let's assume you have a 900 mortgage payment with 600 in taxes and Insurance at the moment if you offer the Lease Option a 7% Mortgage over 20 years on the balance of $152,915 that they owe after their 15% down, you get $1,186 plus the 600 for taxes and insurance, you still make your payments to your bank and put 20K on the principal from this transaction bringing your owing amount to 149,900 (keep your payment the same and adding in $100 to the principal every month) leaves you with $186 every month for 207 months (17.25 years) and the entire $1186 per month for the remaining 33 months of the mortgage you provided, Net Profit before tax?
$186 x 207 = $38,502
$1186 x 33 = $39138
$38502 + $39138 = $77,640
Not bad for "creative real estate," all in a days work! - If you love the idea and it works I won't even charge a fee for the advice ;-) (but won't say no if you offer either, lol)
If you sold it tomorrow with a realtor for the same $179,900, assuming the 6% commission and 2500 in closing costs divided you have a net out at -$1144. Yes, that is right unless you pay more in closing than $1250 or can get the buyer to pay all closing, then you might get enough for a cup of coffee.
As for the "Due on Sale Clause," I have not heard of a bank enforcing it on a performing note... as long as you make the payments, the bank is usually pretty happy - they have bigger problems than you selling your house.
** Please note that I am not an attorney or a CPA, the data I provide is from personal experience and knowledge of finance and industry and should not be construed to be legal or financial advice in any way. **