@Alex Grosvenor Appreciate the reply and all great points! I've not pursued any wholesale deals and have been quite passive with finding deals. With that, I have been able to find a few deals in 2020 off the MLS that have turned into successful BRRRR's. Interesting you say that because that's actually what I've been doing! My last property was actually one that was listed for 6+ months. It's funny though, how a listing will sit dormant for months, but as soon as I make an offer, another two or three follow, and I lose the deal. Maybe it's coincidence or maybe I'm being followed! lol
I hardly even try to go after the day one listings anymore because everyone has the same notifications I do, and I can't compete with the big cash buyers and multiple offers that come in an hour after listing. Don't get me wrong, I still make the offer, but it has not been nearly as successful. I can close quickly, but it's not with cash.
I think you're spot on with how to use my time wisely. If I'm being honest, I did not think 2020 would be as successful as it was (chalk that up to not having big enough goals!) and I was not as proactive as I plan to be in 2021. So now I'm going in to 2021 thinking about how we can make it better. I think that starts with every point you made above!
Given we have limited time and sometimes limited funds, we (my wife and I) are exploring ways to source more deals. Part of that approach is to network and be very targeted in our pursuits (i.e., one zip code, one demographic, one property type, etc.). Since we don't have the time, nor the funds, to do what the larger wholesalers do, we have to figure out what we can do that will differentiate us from them and still be able to compete.
I've also not networked nearly as much I should, so I'm not connected with wholesalers other than the big players. Hopefully the next few weeks/months will result in a few more connections.