Did you sign off on the condition upon move out? I'm assuming no? Any pictures or videos upon move out? Then you have proof on your end. BUT 6 weeks is way past the timeline for them returning the deposit and past the time they can make more claims. AND they did not line item the charges taken from your deposit. It really sounds to me like you have the stronger argument here and they are only crying wolf if they try to demand more money from you.
But bottom line here, you're left with about $1000 of deposit unreturned, if I'm reading correctly.
Is that amount worth the headache and costs of pursuing this especially since you're out of the state now? I guess you could try talking to a tenant rights group here or something.
You wrote:
We received $2000 the week before last with no listing as to what was removed or why. We were debating on pushing back but at this point just happy that it’s done. At least so I thought.
"Last night, the owner’s wife has continued to email us saying we have “no integrity, God will come after us, etc.” and is upset that they are stuck with other bills pertaining to the normal changeover of their property as landlords normally do. Because she has allergies to dogs, they realize that the best thing to do is to just remove their remaining carpet altogether instead of holding the tenants liable to continually clean the carpet until she can move back in without any allergic effects. She claims the home is in such disrepair and needs to be disinfected on top of this.
Our carpet cleaner sent specific notes as to the condition and smell of the carpet upon our departure. Additionally we have photos and videos of the condition of every room, drawer, window and of course the carpet from the day we moved in and on the morning we moved out. She closes her email saying, “more invoices to follow”.
I don’t exactly understand what that means, or if she expects to receive some kind of compensation for this. If she continues to send us invoices for work to the house she feels she doesn’t have to pay - I don’t exactly know at which point I need to continue to ignore her, or at what point I need to begin protecting myself proactively instead of reacting.
What is the threshold before needing to contact a lawyer? No one has said outright that they are suing the other, but at the same time I feel like I need to be proactive instead of reactive and get ahead of it. Definitely don’t want to go down this route, but seriously - enough is enough."
The threshold is whatever you tolerance level is. Nobody likes such uncomfortable transactions. I really don't them having much of an argument here because its way past the claims timeline. You could always try a consult with an attorney. Many will do a free consultation and give you their recommendations. Try looking up attorneys online on Oahu and just find the ones with free consultations. Let us know what transpires.