Quote from @Henry Lazerow:
I agree real estate is not the get rich quick scheme many think. It still can easily make 3x the total return of index fund investing on simple buy/hold at 25% down. When house hacking and buying 3.5-10% down you can still make you rich off 50%+ total returns counting mortgage paydown, cashflow, even conservative 3% appreciation, tax write offs. That's what most of my clients do is 10% down. I bought my 4 unit just few years ago 2019 at 5% down and had $80k total in it which now has made me roughly $400k of appreciation+cashflow+mortgage paydown
Index vs RE is comparing apples to oranges. It's like comparing Index Funds with a restaurant or hair cutting franchise or comparing RE with a 350K year salary. I understand those two are popular and basic investing options, but they are brothers from different mothers. IMO, there are no grounds for comparison between them.
I love my purchases, I got my ROI back in a few years. On one, I made all my money back by refinancing. However, I am on the hook for lawsuits, audits, capex, etc. It's great, I can deal with that. I don't care about appreciation, they are cash cows. There is absolutely nothing like that in today's market.
House hacking is having college roommates or condo-like life, roommates are for young people, condo life is for apartment living loving people. If it suits them, good. It's not that exciting.
Appreciation is fictitious value unless materialized at a good profit. 3% appreciation with a 2.5% inflation is not much (0.5% return? even banks pay more). Accounting for the cost of selling 12%, realtor fees 5% ish, 25% recapture tax which is not adjusted by inflation (the longer you hold it, the more painful the tax will be), and CAPEX, the profits by selling a buy and hold are low. Sure, 1031 is out there, but it neglects appreciation because the next property will be just as expensive, then add the transaction costs. A number on paper is not the same than cash under the pillow. It's make believe money.
A recession is not a live or die crisis. Many jobs will be lost, sure. But it comes with positive factors such cost of living affordability. Many people complain for the current high cost of living and rents and want a mechanism to address that. Well, guess what? A recession will make that happen by lowering prices and rents. However, when that occurs, people complain about loosing value. So what gives? The cycle of behavioral economics will be back.
I can't wait to look back at this in 5 years. It can go either way.