Originally posted by TheMasterKey:
Originally posted by Erik Garcia:
17. Sometimes being successful means leaving friends behind. As you grow, they don't and soon you no longer have anything in common. They often don't want you to be successful because it makes them feel unsuccessful and they inadvertently become your saboteur. As hard as it is, move on.
I have read this advice from many sources, and I think it's right, just tough to do.
Brian
I have left so many friends behind. Some I still have contact with, others I don't. It's only hard letting go at first but soon you will realize that they just come and go. Some people become your friends because you have something to offer to them. When they get what they want, they leave. Don't worry about the people from your past, because there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.
To me, the only friends I will have a hard time letting go are what I call "true" friends. Friends who will never leave you behind. Bottom line is I keep the ones that are empowering, that have character, and that I can trust - no matter where they came from and what their past or future hold.
Erik G.