@Caleb Jordan thank you for your feedback. To your first point, you're basically spot on. I can't use rental income unless there is already a tenant or I have one lined up when I purchase. Only thing about that, if I want to fix and increase the equity, how do I go about doing that if there is already a tenant? Without doing any rehab the only way I can think of increasing equity is by buying under market value. which I would want to do anyway.
I will look more into private lenders and HML. I've already discussed HML with a lender but I will see what other options they can offer and to see if that will work.
I think for my first deal partnering may be the easiest route, but having a partner makes me a little more nervous because there's more pressure to not screw up. If the deal doesn't work out it's not just bad for me. But hopefully with the right partner they can help make sure that doesn't happen. I have some handyman skills and time to put in some sweat equity. So that may be an option if I can find someone.