@William Walker I almost did not respond to your post because I value my time, but since you are attacking me I will make it brief. 1) What I meant was the entire concept of wholesaling is too difficult to explain to the average person using REI terms. The sentence you told Arin to try is almost word for word what I actually told @Arin Whedbee to use. How is what you said materially different from ""I plan on purchasing the house, however someone I deal with might end up being the actual purchaser, either way you will get the same amount of money at closing, is that OK with you?" It is not any different. If you think not using the term "buyers list" make it different I don't know what to tell you (I don't even have a traditional buyer's list). I feel like you are disagreeing and attacking me by agreeing with me. 2) RE: Your PS. Again, if you would read my post, you would see 75% of my post is telling Arin to not do what unethical "wholesalers" do.
I come in here from time to time to try to provide people trying to learn with actionable information how to do this business the correct way. I do not come in to attack people, bring in complaints about wholesalers not in context of the thread, etc. I admired Arin's willingness to learn. He was asking an innocent question. He did not understand a concept. When you are starting out in this business, everything is difficult. Things that are obvious to a seasoned investor are not to a beginner. A question like "what are you going to do with the house?" can be tough. It seems easy but sometimes it is not. First of all, as I stated earlier, you might not know. All you know is it is a good deal. You might assign it, you might repair and hold it, you might rehab it. Sometimes I stumble at this question still if I truly do not know what I am going to do with it. All I know is I am going to make sure the deal closes. I just kept a house as a rental I bought 100% intending to flip it. Of course, the seller never actually asked what I was going to do with the house because he did not care.
@John Thedford Thanks once again for attacking me for saying the exact opposite of what I actually advise Arin to do. I had a seller call me today who dealt with the type of wholesaler you describe (in every single thread on this entire message board), the type I am not, and the type I encouraged Arin not to be. He called me after getting burned by a bad wholesaler. I might buy his properties (it is a big package and about half are further than I like to buy), I might not, but what I will not do is what you accuse every poster in this forum of doing without ever providing helpful information. I will not tie them up and waste his time. I told him that because it is true. I will not sign the contract unless I plan to close. I also immediately told him on the phone, as I always do, I am not a broker, I buy the houses myself, because I do, or someone I know buys it, which also happens sometimes, but it closes. I do not hide anything. Your fake conversation in your post has never and probably will never happen, it only exists in your imagination, because you are not actually in this business, so you do not understand what a true motivated seller is concerned with. The conversation does not fail to occur because the buyer wants to hide anything, but because the seller is not so stupid to think an investor does not plan on making money. In your imagination I walk into a house, introduce myself as a real estate investor, and then convince the seller I am not going to make a profit? Come on, you're smarter than that I hope. I tell the seller I don't have a license within the first 2 minutes on the phone by the way, before they ask, just to clear that up, not at whatever point in your imagination I lie to them about it. Actually most of my mailers state I am not a broker now that I think about it.
Just curious, why do you think the sellers are so dumb? Do you think they think we buy their houses to not make money? I can tell you have never dealt with a motivated seller by your posts. Most sellers say they know I am going to make money (again, if you were doing this you would know it is true. They do say it..ask anyone who deals with motivated sellers). I never pretend I will not make a profit. Why do you think they are marks? They sell their house because they can't stand to deal with it. I'm buying a house (note: I am BUYING IT, not assigning it, I am closing) from a lady who opened the door, saw what her tenant did, cried, and called me and said she never wanted to see it again and would I buy it? She knows I am getting a discount (although honestly I am paying too much for it, but I signed the deal so I will honor it). She even said she knows I am going to make money. She.does.not.care. Again, she does not care. Most of the objections you have on behalf of the seller are not based in reality. Do you get mad at the auto mechanic because he is making a profit when he fixes your brakes? Do you get angry that the guy who cut your grass charged you more than it cost him to put gas into his lawnmower? Of course not. Do you tell a seller he is an idiot for paying you a commission? After all, if I apply your logic, you take some pictures, put a sign in the yard, and post it on the MLS then "steal" 3% of the sales price from the owner. I am sure you believe your services entitle you to get paid (as do I when dealing with a broker, of course they deserve to get paid for their time) but that is effectively what you say. By the way, don't bother listing the value a broker provides, I know they provide value and am not suggesting otherwise.
What I think many people fail to realize is to a significant amount of Americans their house is an anchor on their lives. This is what people who attack investors just cannot understand. The sellers have no idea what to do with their house. All they know is they don't want it, they cannot sell it how it is, they cannot fix it up to list it with a broker (either due to time or money), they cannot afford to wait 6 months to sell it, etc. A broker cannot fix these problems. Find me a broker who guarantees to buy the house if it does not sell in 30 days. Just one*. Until then, investors have their place in this country.
*I thought about doing this if I became a broker by the way. Something along the lines of "I can buy your house for 70k directly, to make more than selling me directly you would have to list it for say 82k because of closing costs, realtor fees, etc (note: don't check my math, but let us pretend this is accurate for now)....I will list it at 85k (or whatever) and after 30 days you have a 1 time option to sell it to me for 70k straight up like I originally offered."
PS I apologize that this post will come off as aggressive, but I am tired of trying to provide helpful and ethical advice to people and basically getting slandered by the same few posters. I am tired of having what I said taken out of context and getting attacked for things I never actually say. I am tried of a new investor asking a simple question about getting attacked instead of educated. I am tired of reading attacks on this business that are not based in any reality of how the business actually works. If this forum is to help new wholesalers learn the correct way then they should be able to ask a question without 1) getting attacked and 2) every single thread turning into strawman attacks on "what every wholesaler does" that no successful one actually does.