Thank you Jon for that explanation. That was the one I was trying to remember but couldn't. It's not that I have a million dollar house or anything like that, I was just trying to pin down if I could include the value of my house to my other assets to obtain my actual net worth to be a millionaire.
Stupid exercise I know, but hey, I like doing the math, and I believe in keeping track. At the end of every year, My wife and I look at our net worth and compare it to the years past, we look at our goals that we set last year, mark off the ones that we have achieved, look at the ones we haven't achieved yet, and set new ones for the coming year.
By doing this, and keeping a record of it, it gives us a road map to follow through the year. When things come up, we see something that we might want, we look at our goals, and ask, will doing this help us attain our goals, or will it get us off our track that we set on January 1st.
Thanks to everyone else for the advice too! I like to keep on learning!