I think an easy fix to this small debate it Knowledge applied is power. Knowledge without application is simply potential energy. I think everyone above is partially correct.
I study personalities in depth and I can tell you a book that will help you tremendously is Personality Plus by Florence Littauer. Don't let this add to your list of to do's before you take action, but put it high on your reading list. I can tell by your post you are a Meloncholy and your husband is a Sanguine. A Meloncholy will almost certainly always suffer from analysis paralisys in any large decision they ever make....even small decisions like what tv, stereo, even sneaker you purchase. If you read every label of everything you purchase, you are a meloncholy. If you read the instructions and follow them to the T, you are a Meloncholy. If you are not truly clinical but could be considered "OCD" by yourself and the people around you that know you the best, you are a Melocholy. If you notice every fault, stain on clothes, hair out of place of every person you ever come in contact with, you are a Meloncholy. I say all of this to tell you that this book will arm you with the info about yourself to be able to strike a balance and enable yourself to make well informed decisions in a timely manner. Hopefuly this helps.