@Larry Spradling you NEED to use facts going forward, and you already took a great start. You are crowd sourcing information. Don't rely on our information, but do use it to inform you research, action, and speak to some professionals. Since you're dealing with an IRA, take the IRS rules into consideration.
1. Determine current rental rate. Maybe the new tenants rent rate will result in positive cashflow, or even more negative.
2. Determine market value of the home. You could pay for an appraisal as well as speaking to a real estate agent and requesting a list of all properties sold in the area for the past 12 months. Provide a similar square footage, number of beds and baths, and look for similar properties. Maybe your home is worth more or less than what your property manager stated.
3. Based on your time horizon, determine what you want out of your investment. Are you better off with a low cost index fund like VTSAX or VTI from Vanguard? Or, do you want a rental equity with cashflow? Or do you want to build wealth with paying off property and potentially increase cashflow with paid off property?
4. We’re humans, so emotion is inevitably going to be involved in our decisions. Rational thought should be used. What advice would you give a family member in the same situation? In ten years, What do you want to be able tell people you did with this problem?
5. We wish you the best. You’re not the only going through this. Thank you for your courage in facing this. A head in the sand will not fix it.