Dawn and all,
Great discussion going on here.
I am in the midst of my first property purchase of a buy and hold that I am doing as a 3-way LLC with family members, all using our IRA monies with no borrowing due to not being able to find a non recourse lender for this particular property (age, price, etc)
It has become apparent that to grow our real estate business to 'the next level' we will need to find Private Money to leverage our IRA assets. So even though that is a bit ahead time-wise, I have already started to form a plan of action.
I my case, I am 'somewhat comfortable' dealing with large sums of money, as my day job is in the construction industry, and I am often selling jobs for 10K-100K and dealing with large sums, as in "I need a 30K deposit to get things rolling on this job" etc.... I also have an excellent business reputation and character reputation in my area, and am involved with a lot of civic activities etc...
With that said, it is still a different thing selling someone on the idea of 'buying a return' instead of a hard product.
One of the things I have done is to make a list of about 200 'potential lenders'. This will obviously be different for all of us depending on the stages of our lives and the people we know. My list is made of of; family members far and near, friends, business associates, acquaintances (UPS man who I have chatted with for 10+ years and know he is sick of stocks for his IRA and wants to find something better than CDs) church friends, a LOT of former customers (I have had the advantage of knowing a lot about their finances while working with them....such as "we have our other house paid for, are selling it, going to build this one and still have 300K left over" etc...).
So, I have been working on this list, and my next step is to approach about a half dozen of them, NOT to say 'do you want to do this' but to say "here is my idea, here are my figures, etc.... and I just want a *general thought* of what you think of this; does it sound logical, well planned out, etc..... to find out what possible objections will be.
I am still thinking about *which* people to test the idea on. I want a good mix. So far I am thinking; a retired farmer (money in CDs), retired business man that had lots of real estate in his younger years (familiar with rentals) widow who has a large estate and does not like the volatility of stocks, retired customer who sold business and has large sums and I would assume is looking for diversity etc...
I guess my thought is: come up with a plan, get over the hesitation how ever you need to do it (I hate the 'selling side' of busienss, I want to 'create') work that plan one step at a time, and educate yourself as much as possible.
Dan Dietz