@Sarah Miller I missed at Brandons webinar.
Finding private money is a bit like learning anything else, its hard before it becomes easy.
Today, anytime I find a good deal, I make the offer, write the contract, "confident" that the money is available even when nobody has agreed to fund me yet.
In the early days, I did numerous hypothetical scenarios presentations to potential private lenders, using listing printouts of actual sold properties, real comps, with summary sheet of ARV, expenses, pruchase price and profits. . I would meet with individuals who I thought might be interested, showed them a basic presentation. I would ask, if I come across something like this again, would they be interested in funding/partnering.
If you are looking for private lenders such as friends or acquaintances, you may find it helpful, less pressure on both sides if you run potential scenarios past them to get a sense of their interest and ability before you are under pressure to close an actual deal.
However if its a screaming deal, you can always find the money if you talk to a few people who know a little about real estate.
In the early days I did my list of 20 people, forced myself to write down the names of 20 people I knew who I thought would have the money, ability to do a deal. I never had to call all 20 before I found someone to fund.