@Okeoma M.
Hi there! I can relate to you once again, as I have a spouse who is happy to let me think about investing and real estate, but tends to glaze over a bit when I delve into the numbers and analysis. We first got on the same general page about investing and making our money work for us when I started to research how we could become financially independent. He loved the idea of financial independence and wanted us to achieve it asap.
I find he helps keep me grounded when I do start to get into analyzing a property. Usually I will give him the pros, he will give me the cons, and we consider both sides until we have come to a yes or no. So far it has only been on which places to make offers--we have not yet purchased our first property.
You say he is frugal which is great! Does he do anything like track his own/your net worth to see how you're progressing toward financial independence? I find seeing net worth increases to be very rewarding and motivating. My spouse, though frugal, didn't have a lot of savings, but since he has been tracking his net worth and seeing the savings grow his motivation and interest have increased a lot. Have you talked about what kind of income you need coming in from cash flowing rentals or passive investments in order to not have to work your day jobs? Having that number in mind and what it will take to get there may help too.