@Thomas S.
You've got to be kidding. "I am proud of the fact that I operate a successful business, nothing what so ever to do with being kind to others." Wow!! Hope you don't teach your kids that. "Hey son, I'm a businessman and when I go to work being kind to others has nothing to do with it."
"...bankrupcy is a cowards way out." This is even more rich because a little bit ago I heard someone say it was the smart way out. But hey, I'm not running the country.
"If you owe someone money you have a responsibility to pay..." I can see you as a debt collector in a hospital turning off the oxygen.
"Debt is debt, it usually indicates someone with poor money management skills..no savings." There is no correlation between debt and money management skills, ask any corporation.
"Nothing hypocritical about how I run my life or my business. Everyone is treated by the exact same standards." By your own admission that is untrue. Refer to bankruptcy quote and debt quote.
Again, hope nothing ever happens to you. Gonna be rough.