@Jonathan R McLaughlin
Thanks for the reply and for putting it in the tenants perspective.I do believe that it is always good to try to view a situation from both sides and I agree that there are some things that from their perspective should have been taken care of.However, I feel that they have as others have stated seized control of the situation.They noticed we have been soft with them and are trying to get anything they can out of us.Just to answer some of your points:
1)True that some of the walls needed fixing.I’m not complaining that it needed fixing nor did I ever tell them that we wouldn’t fix it.Upon them requesting for the paint to be fixed, I immediately said we would take care of it.I only softly pushed back on a few walls that they wanted repainted because there was literally a tiny, less than a quarter sized mark way up high on a 15’ x 15’ wall.I said that it seemed unnecessary to take care of a very small item like that.The tenant responded that not only did we need to take care of that wall, but suggested that it would be in our best interest to repaint the ENTIRE 2500 square foot house so that all the paint is fresh.This is what I mean by them taking a situation and trying to get everything they can out of it and more.
2)The water softener was not checked in the disclosures as being an item that comes with the house.We were in the process of moving out of the house and there were many of our items laying around still that we intended to take out.The disclosures is the sheet that dictates what they get and what they don’t.In my opinion before signing the contract they should have asked why it wasn’t checked if they saw a water softener on the property.It seems to me that they knew it wasn’t working, didn’t want to say something up front because they figured we would say no, sorry it doesn’t work.Instead they waited until we were just a week or so from the moving in and had agreed on everything in the lease to casually ask if the softener will be maintained for them.I could be reading too much into this but it sure seems fishy to me.Why didn’t they ask the same about the pool heater which they claimed was the number one reason for renting the house?
3)I completely agree on the pool heater.This was the first item we really tried to push back on.The only reason we tried to push back on it is because in a face to face conversation about the tenant when we were trying to get a company to fix the heater she stated “It’s no big deal if they can’t fix it”.So I figured based on her statement that they could live without it and if that was the case of course I didn’t want to pour a bunch of money into it.Once she expressed (in about 3 separate scathing emails) how important the heater was to them, we had it fixed within 10 days.Even after having it fixed they still tried to get us to buy them a full tank of propane ($300) which we said no to of course.
4)I’m not sure I understand your statement here.Everything except the pool heater was in good condition and as stated above we fixed the heater just as soon as we found out how important it was to them.They want to maintain the pool themselves which is a no go to us because we don’t want them messing with the pump and filter on their own.They clearly don’t know what they are doing.It seems to us that this is just another thing they are trying to use to get a reduced rent.
Again, I appreciate your input and for making me step back to see it in their perspective.I still think that every time they have said “jump”, we say “how high”, and deliver what they want.I didn’t even mention in my original post that we let them borrow our lawnmower in lieu of charging them for bi-weekly lawn service.I’m kicking myself now about doing that and wondering if I can get the lawnmower back.It wasn’t stated in the lease that we would provide it for them.I also didn’t mention that upon move in we gave them a $50 gift card to a nice restaurant.I’m sure this is fairly standard, but just pointing out that the extremes we have gone to in order to have a good relationship.They asked upon moving in if we had any suggestions on area attractions for them and their kids since they are new to town.I spent 2-3 hours typing up about 3 pages worth of attractions (zoo, hiking trails, golf, museums, restaurants, etc) complete with contact info and directions to give to them.When I look back on it, what have I not done for them except have the home inspected by a professional inspector before move in to identify any problems (to landlords ever do this??).Anyway, as I stated before, the moment a problem was identified we fixed it with minimal push back, if any.
As for why we believe the pool company owner over the landlords, we did not initially.We almost fired the pool company last week because we thought they were not being responsible and following the instructions we had laid out for them.However, then the landscaper incident happened and we started to question things more.We talked with the landscaper and got his story of how he was treated by the tenant which mirrored what the pool company said.I then called the pest control company we use who is also servicing the tenants home (at their expense).I wanted to inquire about how they are treated by the tenants.The pest control owner initially did not want to badmouth his other customer, but eventually did tell me that there have been a few incidents where the tenant treated his technician poorly and demanded more work be done after he had left.After talking with 3 separate contractors who don’t know each other at all I have painted a pretty good picture of who the tenants are and how they treat people.