Again thank you for all of the feedback. @Jim K. I recognize that I am not the first fool to try and I won't be the last. Trust is a very important part of the game, and I trusted a few wrong people here.
@Jonathan Greene I appreciate the kind words. I truly plan to make a career of this and so happened to pay for an expensive education.
In terms of the "guru" mentor-ship programs I would recommend the following, or at least here is my two sense on what I saw.
1. I learned a lot from the mentor, but none of it was a secret and I could have found it all on my own through sites like this and I could have saved a lot of money. i was impatient and I thought that with the base knowledge I had the program was going to push me over the hump.
2. Mentors introduced me to certain tools and ways of thinking that really opened my eyes and helped push me to think outside of the box and I am very grateful for that.
3. They talk through a lot of strategies and did not recommend I do a big flip for my first one and I understand that this was way to big of a deal to start with. I tired for months and I got anxious and rushed. The numbers looked good, but I should have walked after initial appraisal came back low. The second appraisal came in much higher. So we felt confident .
4. If I were to speak to a new investor about the pros and cons of a mentor (guru) I would steer them towards doing as much research on there own and with peers and try and do a few deals. I think that a mentor could/ would be far more useful with a little more experience under the belt. But I agree with @Curt Smith that local REIA's offer far more guidance and certainly the way to go. I have had trouble finding a group were I am and I am considering starting my own.
Long distance investing with a full trusted team is not something I will do again. The project I am working on close to home has had its troubles, but I manage every detail with a fine tooth comb and I am there every day. I have done 75% of the work myself and I absolutely love it. More adventures to come.
Thank you all