Thanks @Joe Splitrock, a cleaning company has come in to do an initial clean up after the pest control came in. The painter that is repainting does a professional job including the prep and cleanup; she painted the house just last year, which unfortunately it now has to be redone due to the bad tenants.
I have made a detailed list based on what the realtor told me and the video he made. On the bids that I am getting, I sent them the list along with the lockbox code. The bid from the realtor's contractor didn't include some things we'd said needed repaired and yet included some things the realtor didn't even discuss/agree upon with me. When I go there this weekend I may need to + - based on what I personally see. Because he also said things like the refrigerator was dirty/smelled and though it probably worked we should probably just "throw it away and get a new one." Things like this are easy to say when you are not the one writing the checks.
I appreciated his help but it had also taken him a month to get the one bid in and I had to contact the painter to get them started after their bid and a glass company to expedite their window repair. With the slow pace and lack of other bids, I felt it was time for me to take control. Also there had been an issue with my mother's health that was preventing me being able to step in and do more, but that has mostly stabilized now.
I want a detailed list from his contractor as to the costs but the guy is backing off. When I asked for it he said he went through and "found the mistake" and then gave the new bid again without itemizing. I am going to see what the other contractors bid. I'm put off by his $2200 "mistake" to be honest.
I did think of calling some floor contractors for the hardwood floors and having the rest to a handyman as the rest are pick list items that don't take specialized trade skills, so thanks for that suggestion. I also think a specialist would do a better job and faster, because that's all they do. Someone could say changing out a light fixture is electrical but honestly doesn't need an electrician. I'm having the painter bid the work to paint the basement floor as she has experience with floor paints too.