@Tony Kim Hey Tony. You aren't being a jerk at all! Those are all very valid questions. It's a long story, but basically I left Texas and moved to NYC in 2008 at a time when the economy was doing terribly. On top of that, I entered the music business which was on it's knees at the time since it hadn't adjusted to new consumer habits. My dream was always to be in the music business in NYC, so when the largest music company in the world offered me a full time position I jumped on it. The position was EXTREMELY low paying, however, and wasn't one I particularly loved doing. Keep in mind I was already making around 80K a year in Texas in my late 20s and gave that up to follow what was my passion at the time. Over the next several years I made a couple of lateral moves to try and figure out what I wanted to do at the company (without promotions/raises), and it wasn't until two or three years ago I figured it out: Finance!
My performance reviews, particularly since I have moved over to finance, have been excellent. I often come in on Saturdays and work extra hours during the week although I am a salaried employee who doesn't get overtime. I don't want to come across like I'm trying to make excuses, however. I can definitely up my game and am always striving to do so. So to answer the question, what I wanted and worked towards when I was 25 has drastically changed, and I have only really figured out in the past couple of years. I envy those who figure it all out from the very beginning, but this is the path I'm on and all I can do is look towards the future!
Thanks so much for the response.