Hi Spencer,
There's nothing wrong waiting things out on the sidelines, especially if you're not exactly comfortable with where things are at in terms of the market cycle. It's a good opportunity for new investors like us to get well versed in real estate and make sure our real estate education is in a good spot (via the podcasts, books, etc.). Also note that although it is a really hot market, no one really knows when the next downturn will be.
There are certainly non-distressed properties where the numbers will work. It just may not be in your city. Once you pick the area you want to invest in you'll have to really be aggressive about building multiple lead sources including relationships that you build, turnkey sites (make sure to run the numbers yourself, be careful, and do your own diligence), getting an agent, and doing your own searches on the internet.
In this kind of market one may need hundreds of leads to make a hundred offers to get less than 5 of those offers accepted. It's a huge hurdle and I've been struggling with it as well. This "funnel" concept is a recurring topic on the BP podcast these days.