Originally posted by @Kevin Auyong:
Peace of mind is also something to think about. The world is changing and I think a lot of jobs may change or disappear.
If I had a mortgage on an expensive bay area house and lost my job, that house is now a monster. This happened to me. I had a successful business that due to changes in the world went belly up. People will say just go get a job. But for me I was at an age where I was not at the top of the hiring list. I've had friends experience difficulty getting a good job because of age. If you are renting you have more flexibilty in housing and don't have the monster over your head. In my case I never did go back to work because I had cash flow from all the little rentals out of state. But the point is I have the CHOICE to work or not work.
If you lose your job and think you can tap out equity from appreciation to live on, you probably can't because you now have no income so the bank will not loan you money. So you might be rich, but it is trapped until you can sell. Even then, how long will that last?
In my situation I always have rental income and if things got tight, it's easy for me to rent a smaller cheaper place quickly.
Thanks for sharing your experience!!! I know that there's no true job security and I don't want to be relying on a job. I also feel that my age is starting to creep up and I know companies here love to hire newly grads.
I had this realization when I saw my friend, who is in his 50s, he has a successful corporate career, in a high-level position, he lives in an 1 Million+ house in the bay area in a great neighborhood. After his new job, he told me he's super stressful everyday, has to work til midnight, and his job is destroying his health little by little and he sometimes wanted to resign. I told him he doesn't need to stay in the job if it's so stressful, and he can move out of the house and rent it to other people to ease the bill. But he said he has to put food on the table and he also don't want to give up living in that neighborhood for some reasons.
Well I don't know too much about his financial situation and won't judge further, I just don't wish that happen to me LOL