@Brian G. I have met those who use it. Whole life itself is not what you become wealthy on but you can use it for other things that you do. Just like tax strategies and other things like that you normally use it for once you have money not to get money.
@Account Closed
A little surprised at your answer considering I have read a lot of your stuff and you are normally fairly sophisticated. I am not going to argue for or against insurance. Its situational just like legal or tax items. However, some of the things you are pointing out are way off base. Its a gigantic industry so of course there is a lot of bad acting and bad reps. The same can be said about equities, derivatives, etc. etc. Most of those by the way are also complicated, come with bad reps and are not generally understood by many.
As for transparency, there are very clear disclosure rules. Yes it's very complicated and yes many agents try and make it more complicated to hide what is in it for them.
You are also not wrong (and this is just an opinion I know many might disagree) that on its own merits whole life might not be worth it if all you want is insurance, esp if you are not high income or have a lot of liability exposure. Term is easier to understand and many times it is cheaper.
What you are missing though, in my opinion, is that insurance, for whatever reason, has some very unique advantages in what you can do with it. This has nothing to do with insurance. Yes you will end up paying the piper (the salesperson, the insurance company etc.). The insurance company I don't think is too complicated its basically risk-based pricing. Insurance companies are some of the most sophisticated companies in the world on risk pricing. Most also reinsure it so there is a cost there but also protection if there is a disaster.
The commission structure can be more complicated and is more opaque. However, if say you have a tax rate of 40% to 50% (in CA or NY fairly typical) it can be very advantageous and outstrip the costs. Not saying run out and get it, I think there are other strategies that work too esp for RE, but it is definitely more interesting than you give it credit for, at least for those who are high net worth or high income. I would also note that most of those RE tax strategies are at least as complicated and fraught with fees, middlemen, etc. in some of the structures used like DST, etc.
There are also liability advantages.
To me, insurance is just a contract you can put some interesting stuff into. It has a cost and that cost is sometimes worth it, sometimes not. It is a lot more interesting than you imply though in my opinion.